The Privilege of Humility20thAugust
This December will bring a son into Molly's and my family. For all my pomp and bluster about raising children with values of connection to land and family, I definitely realize that working with nearly 24,000 kids over the past 17 years may be quite different than raising my own for the next 18.
One of the issues I now spend a great deal of time meditating upon is privilege. My wife and I are not wealthy by any means, yet we have a home and food to live by (some grown at the homestead); most importantly, we have stable, healthy relationships surrounding us. In our world today we're often told that our lives must be destined for individual greatness. This idea is affirmed by Disney, morality plays, social networking and even the search for the elusive Doctorate. My Italian mother taught me that aspiring to simplicity and moderation has its own rewards. On this path you find measured breaths, a strong heartbeat, and a good night's sleep.
Humility is a value not often espoused in our educational system. Humbleness has been confused with destitution. I personally have always seen humility as never taking more than you need and always giving back to your family, community and the land you live.
At Trackers, humility may not overtly appear in our public message, yet it's interwoven with everything we do. The tree you make a bow drill set from will not automatically give you fire by friction. You have to see the wood, offer it your attention and craft. You need to let the curve and straight of the branch guide your hand in carving, finally shaping a set that creates a coal. The path of least resistance is often the most elegant one.
Pulling "me" out of the equation and always considering relationships arises from the principles of caretaking. When my child is born, how can I help set the expectation that they are here to serve their family and the community of life? I don't believe my son is meant for any great destiny. I only believe that both he and I (and all of us, in truth) have been given the gift of being human in a world rich with wonders.
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| Jennifer LaBreche Aug 26, 2010 3:54 PM
Thank you for sharing this. It was beautiful. |
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| Heidi McNAmee Aug 20, 2010 10:20 PM
Love your posts, Tony! This one resonates particularly because I've decided that this is my year not to have an ego...it's an impediment more often than a help. I'm taking on the role of PTSA president at my kids' school. I'll fall down a lot. I'll make a ton of mistakes. And my hope is, that as I do so, I'll begin to see ways to find my path and I'll be led to the people who will help create good things. Humility can be a saving grace when the goal is to enjoy your day and sleep well at night. And a belated thanks for a great Middle Earth camp 2 weeks ago. My kids had a blast! |
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